Depending on your primary wound, these are the messages your inner child needs to hear:
😟FOR THE WOUND OF ABANDONMENT:
Messages of Security:
- “I will never abandon you.”
- “I will always be here for you.”
- “You are worthy of constant love.”
- “You can be yourself and be loved.”
- “You don’t have to be perfect for me to love you.”
- Specific Commitments:
- “I will consult you before making important decisions.”
- “I will take care of your need for emotional security.”
- “I will validate your emotions without judging them.”
😟FOR THE WOUND OF REJECTION:
Messages of Acceptance:
- “You are perfect just as you are.”
- “I accept you completely.”
- “You deserve to take up space in this world.”
- “Your imperfections make you unique and beautiful.”
- “You don’t have to prove anything to be loved.”
Specific Commitments:
- “I will celebrate your unique qualities.”
- “I will protect you from self-criticism.”
- “I will find spaces for you where you can shine.”
🫨FOR THE WOUND OF HUMILIATION:
Messages of Dignity:
- “Your needs are important.”
- “It is safe to be seen.”
- “You are valuable and enough.”
- “You deserve to take your place.”
- “Your voice matters and deserves to be heard.”
Specific Commitments:
- “I will honor your needs without apologies.”
- “I will defend you when someone minimizes you.”
- “I will celebrate your existence every day.”
🤥FOR THE WOUND OF BETRAYAL:
Messages of Trust:
- “You can trust me.”
- “I will protect you.”
- “It is safe to be vulnerable with me.”
- “I will never betray you.”
- “Your secrets are safe with me.”
Specific Commitments:
- “I will keep my promises to you.”
- “I will create safety in your world.”
- “I will be consistent in my love.”
😬FOR THE WOUND OF INJUSTICE:
Messages of Humanity:
- “Your emotions are valid.”
- “You can be human and imperfect.”
- “You deserve compassion.”
- “You don’t have to be strong all the time.”
- “It is safe to show your vulnerability.”
Specific Commitaments:
- “I will honor your emotions without judging them.”
- “I will give you permission not to be perfect.”
- “I will take care of you when you feel vulnerable.”
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